What is one reason why people may resist assistance in personal care?

People may resist assistance in personal care primarily because they desire independence. This desire for self-sufficiency can stem from a range of factors, including a wish to maintain personal autonomy, pride in being able to care for oneself, or a belief that they can manage their personal care without external help. This sentiment is particularly strong among individuals who value their ability to make decisions about their own lives, and they may view assistance, even when well-intentioned, as a challenge to that independence.

While other factors like a lack of experience or uncertainty about what they need can influence someone's willingness to accept help, the core motivation often centers around the inherent desire to retain control and autonomy in one's life. Individuals might feel that accepting help implies dependency, which can trigger resistance. Understanding this motivation is crucial for DSPs in their approach to providing care, as building trust and respecting a person's need for independence can lead to more effective support strategies.